Did You Ever Meet Him
Monday, June 9, 2025
Or a Grandparent Like Him

Who Gave Everything to Help a Grandchild?
Psalm 34:19
Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord rescues them from them all.
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Mark 13:11
When they bring you to trial and hand you over, do not worry beforehand about what you are to say; but say whatever is given you at that time, for it is not you who speak, but the Holy Spirit.
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Words of Grace for Today –
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Sometimes God sends the most unlikely person to rescue us from ourselves, from our enemies, from all that ails us, and all that ails society.
But what are we going to say when our trial starts?
Senator Stackhouse had lots to say. Not much had much to do with anything. It was a filibuster after all.
I wonder how many Minnesotans even have met their own Senator Stackhouse.
He didn’t have much influence, or power, or political smarts, but he kept being elected to the senate for decades. Who knew if at 78 he would be alive to be elected again.
He was kind of an old curmudgeon. Kind of dependable that way, at least.
Then came the much needed omnibus bill for children’s health care. It started at 2 billion, and kept getting added to, for who was going to vote against child health care? It grew to over 6 billion, if I remember correctly.
Lots of horsetrading went into getting enough votes to support it’s passage through both houses. It was closed by the committee, and sent to the senate for a vote.
Senator Stackhouse had asked for a meeting with the White House, to get his little bit added to the bill. Sneezing from a head cold he asked for just a few hundred million for autism support, research, and care around the country. Laudable. But a bit late. The bill had just been closed. It was Friday. A recess waited. Everyone waited
to head off to a needed break, or
a family gathering for a milestone birthday,
or a long awaited trip to be renewed by nature,
or ….
It was noon by the time the vote was ready to be called on the floor of the Senate.
That’s when he started.
Started a filibuster.
Old Minnesotan, curmudgeon Stackhouse started a filibuster.
He couldn’t last long could he?
No Way!
Recipes, manuals, rules for card games.
On he went, standing, not leaning, not yielding the floor, not drinking or eating, not being excused to use the washroom,
just talking.
The news cycle deadlines came and went. The press corps waiting. The senators, long since drifting back to their offices, waiting. The White House staff waiting.
News giving background on Stackhouse.
Everyone waiting.
Waiting.
An assistant to an assistant, noticed something in the background photos of Stackhouse standing with his grandchildren.
Staff wrote email,
email to explain why they would be late
then that they would not make their flights.
Then that the last flights had come and gone.
So had connections by train and car.
Everyone waiting.
Supper came and went.
Stackhouse had stood and talked for more than 7 hours, going on 8. That poor old curmudgeon with a head cold kept talking, not yielding the floor. Holding up the vote, the news, the win for the White House and for Congress, and for the people and for children.
Then that assistant put it together. Only six grandchildren stood in those photos. Stackhouse had seven grandchildren. And background information revealed that one grandchild had autism.
Suddenly the picture of Stackhouse changed. The White House, even the president, made calls to other grandparent senators and got them, by point of order, to ask to join the filibuster by way of asking questions.
And Stackhouse got sit and rest and then stand again to give information about autism. Not the fake stuff that raises fears, but the real science, such as it was in that day. For this was decades ago.
People understood there would be no way to stop old Stackhouse because he wasn’t fighting for himself or just an idea. He was fighting, word by word, minute by minute, hour by hour, head cold and all, for one of his grandchild, and all the other grandchildren like his, with autism.
The White House called the committee, opened up the bill, since the news deadlines were missed already. They added the few hundred million for autism support, research, and care around the country.
The bill presented again to the Senate, the filibuster ended. The vote was taken. It passed both houses.
People missed a piece of their lives, but in the end everyone won.
I wonder how many Minnesotans, or even US citizens, knew Senator Stackhouse, or even knew of him. Had they heard of his filibuster?
Wouldn’t it be something if that was how politicians did business, with heart. Except maybe without the waste of piling on so many useless things that had nothing to do with children’s health care to such a bill.
Wouldn’t it be something to see cross party support emerge when it really counts, for the people who are kept from speaking for themselves.
Like immigrants, foreign workers, like … well we know there’s more of ‘them’ than get to speak.
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Of course, Senator Stackhouse is a fictional character, along with the rest of the story, created by Aaron Sorkin and others, for the 2nd Season of the West Wing, 2000.
Wouldn’t it be something even if there were more fictional characters written like Senator Stackhouse and President Bartlet, and Josh and Sam, and Leo and C.J., Toby and Charlie, and all the others who made The West Wing one of the greatest television shows of all time.
Wouldn’t it be something if a lot more people lived their lives more like these characters, and less like the current president?
Credit for the Photo: George Coe as Senator Stackhouse in The West Wing S2 ‘The Stackhouse Filibuster’, https://westwing.fandom.com/wiki/Howard_Stackhouse accessed 7 June 2025